A surprise gift from mom, a small chocky from dad when he's back from his work, bro/sis's gifts and unlimited pocket money u get from them when they begin to work, a surprise b'day cake from frens, busy uncle makin time for u, wonderful outing (tat wasn't planned at all), massage after a hectic work, small chats with ur family, a smile on a baby's face when u gift/ buy something it likes - are these small things? Certain things seem to be small but can't be bought even if ur willing to pay a million dollars. They mean more than wat they seem to. Even now when u talk to a busy person and ask about the best instances in their life, they would mostly talk about such things... they are small but they are very well remembered by every1 in their life... Many kids whose parents are workin have missed such small things in their life - playin with their mom, a peaceful car drive with their dad etc... It means a lot to them.... Missing such things have changed their attitude towards their parents....
Are these things really small?
Monday, July 28, 2008
Thursday, July 24, 2008
have u guys wondered......
hey have u guys wondered about certain instances... like... when u hear about some serious issue or u are giving some serious thought to an act or certain behaviour thats new in u, u come across many things in connection wit tat...
Few days back, I was in some minor trouble... and as human minds think (at tat moment) its a very big issue, I dunno how... suddenly the thought of depression came into ma mind and i began to think or rather imagine tat i was very depressed... then i switch on the tv I find a show where a bubbly girl has gone under depression, I read an article tat says lack of serotonin in the body causes depression, and I read a book (which i borrowed from the library long time back and i wonder why i took 3 books finished the first 2 in a week, then somehow dint bother to read about dis book at all) and dis book (veronika decides to die, Paulo coelho) spoke about a girl who was tired of life, tried to commit suicide, ended up in asylum where she finds a girl who is in the asylum cos shes DEPRESSED, few ppl who are in cos they are diffferent and few wise ppl among the madmen(not finished the book .. so...) I heard too much about depression in less than two days and finally got tired of it... now if i think abt tat .. its funny.. but thinkin abt the chain of events.. i ve always wondered how such things happen... is it cos u start noticing or paying attention to such things (which we uld have never thought about , before)? may be....
K... how many of u believe tat certain ppl who are termed mad are actually not ... they are called so, cos they are different, cos they think or act differently or cos they are or they live in a different world? (Long ago , even our best scientists and researchers were called mad cos they talk about things, tat normal man failed to understand) Even today many of us joke tat resarchers are mad ppl... Actually many mad men talk about a lot of wise things, certain ppl become due to fear - fear of being criticised , fear of many things... many mad ppl even though they are normal or they are cured prefer to stay as a mad man cos the society won't let them stay normal, cos ppl wont listen to wat dese ppl say, and cos they enjoy more freedom of sppech and right by staying tat way... from few of my friend's acquaintance wit the so called mad ppl ,(esp the ones who are mentally challenged due to fear long for being cared and tats all. They are scared if others would yell at them or blame them for non sensical things... deep inside they jus wanna be cared and loved... this actually helps them , gives them the confidence tat ther is some1 for them, some1 to care , to love.. they actually become normal when there are such ppl around them). It is only when talk and behave differently wit them, they lose their tolerance level and throw tantrums....
Few days back, I was in some minor trouble... and as human minds think (at tat moment) its a very big issue, I dunno how... suddenly the thought of depression came into ma mind and i began to think or rather imagine tat i was very depressed... then i switch on the tv I find a show where a bubbly girl has gone under depression, I read an article tat says lack of serotonin in the body causes depression, and I read a book (which i borrowed from the library long time back and i wonder why i took 3 books finished the first 2 in a week, then somehow dint bother to read about dis book at all) and dis book (veronika decides to die, Paulo coelho) spoke about a girl who was tired of life, tried to commit suicide, ended up in asylum where she finds a girl who is in the asylum cos shes DEPRESSED, few ppl who are in cos they are diffferent and few wise ppl among the madmen(not finished the book .. so...) I heard too much about depression in less than two days and finally got tired of it... now if i think abt tat .. its funny.. but thinkin abt the chain of events.. i ve always wondered how such things happen... is it cos u start noticing or paying attention to such things (which we uld have never thought about , before)? may be....
K... how many of u believe tat certain ppl who are termed mad are actually not ... they are called so, cos they are different, cos they think or act differently or cos they are or they live in a different world? (Long ago , even our best scientists and researchers were called mad cos they talk about things, tat normal man failed to understand) Even today many of us joke tat resarchers are mad ppl... Actually many mad men talk about a lot of wise things, certain ppl become due to fear - fear of being criticised , fear of many things... many mad ppl even though they are normal or they are cured prefer to stay as a mad man cos the society won't let them stay normal, cos ppl wont listen to wat dese ppl say, and cos they enjoy more freedom of sppech and right by staying tat way... from few of my friend's acquaintance wit the so called mad ppl ,(esp the ones who are mentally challenged due to fear long for being cared and tats all. They are scared if others would yell at them or blame them for non sensical things... deep inside they jus wanna be cared and loved... this actually helps them , gives them the confidence tat ther is some1 for them, some1 to care , to love.. they actually become normal when there are such ppl around them). It is only when talk and behave differently wit them, they lose their tolerance level and throw tantrums....
Unusually me
K.... am not that open about myself (except fa close frens) I think a lot before saying something... But I have lost tat patience and so here I am blogging... am jus going to say whatever I feel like without giving it a second thought... which is very unusual about me... Am not going to edit my blog or u know plan, think and write in order, the way many ppl do... jus gonna write wat i feel like... it may be wrong, ma thoughts may be ridiculous but am jus gonna say wat i feel like...
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